crisis

is it rude to fight for our own right?
sometimes we do argue to stand and defend diri sndiri daripada org2 yg suka menjatuhkan..
the level of tone for that argument basically based on camana org yg cursing the statement.

i did stand for my right (and sometimes others - kdg2 cuba menjadi pendamai yg at the end terperangkap sndiri).
not to be rude to the eldest, but they are the most who like to condemn people since they think you-young-people-listen-to-me kinda thing. and might be it is sort of life crisis..(uhuh?).
and after thinking and muhasabah while being alone, it just crossing my mind that am i would be like them soon?

midlife crisis is between how to act like - young vs adult.
and these bring the chaos and those who do not know how to balance would tend to be childish and ade juge yg kwn2 slalu cakap tua-sblm-usia.
well, being tua and being matured is different thing.
sometimes the job itself required people to be like that.
for example, being a manager in HR while your age baru 24 to 26, you cannot sengeh2 and so on, if you dont want your subordinates luffing at you and perkotak katikkan you.
i was in that shoes and i know.
when subordinates waiting to listen to your instructions and your friends were like omg-why-so-serious kinda thing. well, this really happen to fresh grads who appointed to hold managerial post in organizations.
thats why i always share the experiences to the trainees who come to have industrial training at my place.

being balance is the key.
but me, also cannot get the balance.
and those who stay with me since the first day i get this post, are very appreciated.
thanks for accepting my thick and thin.

ok.. aku dah berjaya delaykan keja setengah jam.
hahaha.